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All About Outcalls With Delphine

An outcall session means you are planning to host me at your home or hotel room. I enjoy doing outcalls as much as incalls. I am happy to travel for an outcall all over the Bay Area.

Some people like outcalls because it is convenient and comfortable for them. Some relax more easily on their home turf. If you’ve been traveling or working all day, an outcall makes it easy to have fun and go right to sleep afterward! Others have specific kink equipment or toys they like to use at home.

I also generally only host at my space for sessions of 6 hours or shorter. So, if you want a longer session, it would have to be an outcall at a hotel or your home.

delphine, a brunette woman in maroon lingerie and black pleasers in front of a cemetery building.

Where Can You Host an Outcall?

If you’d like me to visit you outside of my Emeryville incall, you can host at a hotel, vacation rental, or your home. I don’t have any requirements for hotels, such as a number of stars, but I may decline to go to certain places, like hourly motels.

Vacation rentals are also a great option, especially for longer sessions because they have kitchens, plenty of space to relax and spread out, and other amenities. (I love a rental with a hot tub!)

I’m also happy to visit you at your home. If you have roommates or live with other people, please let me know before I come over. I’d prefer them not to be home at all, but at the very least, they must stay out of the room we will be in and I’d prefer not to meet them or interact with them. If you have children, please only host me at a time when your children will not be home.

I do outcalls all over the Bay Area. Some areas that require a bit of a drive from the East Bay, such as South Bay & North Bay, require a travel fee.

I’ve even done outcalls to unconventional locations including off-grid houses, RVs, and workplaces. I am open to unusual situations, and I only accept these locations on a case-by-case basis.

How to Prepare for an Outcall

Preparing for an outcall session is much like preparing for any other guest to come over. If you’re hosting at home, tidy up a bit. I don’t mind a bit of a mess or disorganization; it is your home after all! However, at minimum, I request a clean bathroom and fresh sheets. If you’re hosting at a hotel or rental, there’s not much to do in that realm!

Make sure there is at least one clean towel for me to use. Please have a clean glass or an unopened bottle of water. If we are going to enjoy any other refreshments, such as wine, please do not open the bottle until I get there.

If you want to go the extra mile, an extra clean home, snacks, white or rosé wine, and sparkling water are some of my favorite surprises for outcalls.

Most people plan to shower shortly before I arrive so they are fresh and clean for our time together.

The Logistics of an Outcall

For outcalls, I ask for the home address or the hotel name/address when you book the session. If there is a hotel room number, you can send it to me the day before or the morning of our meeting. I am only able to meet you if I have your room number, even if we meet in the lobby.

I will text you when I am on my way to you, and then again when I’ve parked nearby so you’ll know exactly when to expect me.

How to Greet an Escort in the Lobby of a Hotel with Keycard Elevators

Normally, I scoot up to your hotel room on my own after arriving to the hotel. Some hotels have keycard elevators meaning I won’t be able to get up to the room without a keycard. In this case, you meet me in the lobby and we go to the room together.

Some people get a bit nervous about this interaction. This causes them to do strange things, like trying to pretend we don’t know each other and making cryptic hand gestures towards me, or insisting on walking 30 steps ahead of me and then poking their head out from behind a corner when I don’t know where they went or where to follow them.

I would advise you to not do that. In this case, acting strangely in public has the opposite of the desired effect. It is not discreet. Just act normal! There is nothing unusual about having someone visit you in a hotel. People do it all the time who are not doing this! We are the only two people who know we are doing something a bit spicy.

So what should you do instead of acting like a secret agent on a mission when meeting an escort in the lobby of a hotel? Just greet me like an acquaintance. Shake my hand or give me a friendly (not intimate) hug. Say “Nice to see you,” instead of “Nice to meet you,” if it is our first time meeting. Do not touch me intimately or talk about anything sexual while we are on our way to the room. Let’s make small talk about your day, the weather, the hotel, etc.

Once we get to the room I swear I’ll give you a proper warm, intimate, and sweet greeting!

delphine, a brunette woman, wearing a leopard print shirt, blue jeans, and gold heels.
This is an example of an outfit I might wear to an outcall at an upscale hotel.
This is an example of an outfit I might wear to an outcall on a hot summer day.
This is an example of an outfit I would *not* wear to an outcall. 😜 (But I might change into it after I arrive!)

Outcall Misconceptions

One of the most common requests I get for outcalls is to “be discreet” or “dress discreetly.”

Let me assure you, I am a professional! I have been in the adult industry for 13+ years, and have been an escort for over 7 years. I wouldn’t have been able to make it this far if I didn’t value discretion both for myself and my clients.

In general, I am an understated dresser. This is part of why I don’t take outfit requests. I prefer an effortlessly sexy, but not overly revealing style. When it comes to outcalls, I typically wear jeans and a nice blouse with heels or a dress that covers everything important. Please rest assured I will not show up to your hotel lobby or front door in my lingerie or 6 inch stripper heels, nor will I wear a neon sign that says “hooker” with arrows pointing right at my face. (Ha!)

Additionally, while age doesn’t always correspond to maturity, I am an adult in my 30s. I know how to act in public, and I have a lot of experience navigating hotels and residential neighborhoods in this manner. I empathize with your concern, and it’s understandable. But please rest assured that I do know how to navigate this situation, and I am happy to answer any questions you might have about it.

I’m so looking forward to meeting you at your home or hotel room! Contact me via e-mail at delphine_x@protonmail.com or fill out my booking form to inquire about an outcall session.

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