All About Incalls With Delphine
Before we get into the nitty gritty details about visiting my space for an incall session, let’s start with the basics. What does incall even mean?
Incall & Outcall Defined
An incall session with an escort, domme, or FBSM provider means you, the client, visit the provider’s space. The provider is hosting you. Some incalls take place at hotels, others are at a private studio or apartment.
The alternative to an incall is an outcall. That means the provider visits you at your space, typically a home or hotel room. Once in a while, it might be another space, like your office or another type of work space.
My Incall Spaces
I generally host at residential incall spaces in the East Bay, specifically in Emeryville. On rare occasions, I may opt for a hotel instead if none of the spaces I use are available. However, I prefer the residential spaces I use for a few different reasons.
First, they’re discreet. They’re more private than hotels. We never have to worry about keycard elevators, hotel staff barging in, nosy front desk staff, or getting noise complaints.
Second, they are well-equipped. The spaces I use generally have everything we need for our time together including plentiful clean towels, washcloths, clean sheets, filtered drinking water, soap, safer sex supplies, and some toys and accessories for kinky and creative minds. We don’t have to worry about running out of towels or fresh sheets for our fun.
Third, they enable me to be more flexible. Because I use these residential spaces, I don’t have to take large deposits for each session because I don’t have to shell out a few hundred for a hotel room. I also don’t have to try to stack multiple sessions on a single day to get the most out of having the hotel room, so it affords me greater flexibility with my schedule.
Is Your Incall Space in a Safe Location?
I would never advise anyone to do something I thought was unsafe. I’ve been using these spaces for years. All incalls I use are in safe locations and I’ve never had anything untoward happen at any of these locations. However, this is still an urban environment in the Bay Area. Be aware of your surroundings and don’t leave things visible in your car.
How to Find My Incall: The “Two-Call System”
I always give clear instructions for finding my incall space. I only give out the exact address at the time of our session.
If you don’t have the address, how will you know where to go?
I use a “two-call system.” When you book, I will tell you to park near an intersection. You can also get dropped off here in an Uber or Lyft, etc. Generally, the place I tell you to park near is within 1 block of the incall space.
At the time of our session, once you text me that you have arrived to the intersection, I will text you the address as well as clear instructions for how to find my unit in the building.
Most of the time there is plentiful parking. However, in the rare case that there’s no parking available near the intersection, you can park up to a few blocks away, it will just take you longer to get to my space.
It takes most people 2-3 minutes to get from their car to my space.
The Flow of An Incall Session with Delphine
Every provider does things differently. I can imagine you might be wondering what to expect from an incall session with me, even if you’re experienced.
Here’s how incall sessions generally go for a 1-3 hour session.
Once you arrive at the space, we will sit and chat for a few moments. I will likely offer you some water and open any wine or other refreshments you have brought for us to share. During this time we may discuss what you hope to do in our time together, get to know each other a bit if you’re a new friend, or catch up if you’re an old friend. I will then offer you a shower.
I generally request that everyone showers, unless you just showered before you came and came from close by. If you’ve been driving for a bit of time to reach me, or haven’t had the chance to freshen up, I request that you rinse off.
Once you are out of the shower, the fun begins! I don’t like to kiss and tell, so I won’t give too many details, but if you read my reviews on Private Delights you’ll see most of my friends are very happy with our time together.
Once we’re done with the fun, we can have some relaxed, intimate, sweetness. This delightful time can include relaxing in bed together, pillow talk, playing a game, eating snacks (if you’ve brought some!), listening to music, watching a movie, etc. Depending on how long you’ve booked, we can dive into more fun or take it easy together until it’s time to go.
When our time is coming to a close, I will offer you another shower before you head home.
Longer Incall Sessions
The flow of longer incall sessions is generally the same as shorter ones. However, for vanilla GFE sessions, I offer incall only for sessions of 6 hours and shorter. Sessions between 4 and 6 hours require a meal or activity out. So, we would spend some time at the space, and some time out for a meal, to a movie, or something else.
For kink sessions, incall is available for sessions longer than 6 hours at a rental dungeon. We would stay in and play for most of the time but would order in our meals.
What To Do If You Are Early to an Incall Session
If you are early for our incall session you will likely have to wait. If you are five or fewer minutes early, I might be able to accommodate you. Anything more than that, you should wait in your car, grab a coffee, or take a walk until our session time.
What To Do If You Are Late to an Incall Session
If you are a little late (5-10 minutes) once in a while, I will try to accommodate you for the full time booked. However, I may not be able to accommodate the extra time depending on my schedule and that of the space.
If you are habitually 5-10 minutes late I will not accommodate you for the full amount of time booked (ie, if you book an hour for 1 pm, and arrive at 110, you will still need to leave at 2 pm).
If you are very late please contact me. I try to work with you if it happens once in a while because I know things happen. Bay Area traffic is a real thing! I sometimes have flexibility and might be able to accommodate you for the full time booked. However, I may not be able to accommodate the extra time depending on my schedule and that of the space.
If you are habitually extremely late I require the full session fee electronically before we meet and will not be able to accommodate you for the full time booked (ie, if you booked 2 hours for 1 pm, and arrive at 2 pm, you will still need to leave at 3 pm and pay the full session fee).
What To Bring for an Incall Session
I aim to make incall sessions as comfortable and comprehensive as possible. The only requirement is to bring yourself and my consideration. As I mentioned, my space is well-equipped with everything we need to have a great time together. However, you’re more than welcome to bring anything that might make you feel more comfortable!
These are some examples of optional things you might choose to bring to our incall session:
- Your own towel/soap/shampoo that you prefer
- Your own deodorant/moisturizer/hair products etc. for after your shower
- Toys that you want to use in our session
- Wine for us to share (I love dry whites, rosé, and bubbly!)
- Sparkline water for us to enjoy
- Snacks
- A gift or a tip for me in addition to my consideration
Incall Etiquette
- Please never share information about an incall location with anyone else for any reason, unless directed to do so.
- Please follow the directions I send you for where to park and how to find my incall space. If you have any questions or are having trouble finding it at the time of our session, please text or call me.
- Please wait in your car or take a walk if you are early. Please do not wait near the entrance to the building.
- Please leave the space immediately when our session is over, do not loiter in the building or near the entrance.
- If you need to wait for an Uber or Lyft, please order it a few minutes before the end of our session or go to a nearby address or intersection instead of waiting at the entrance to the building.
- Please be respectful of my time. I always gently and politely enforce time boundaries. I don’t watch the clock, set timers, or alarms. I don’t worry about three or five minutes here or there. My goal is to have it feel like an organic date, while still maintaining the time boundary container of our session. When I move you towards getting dressed and leaving, please do so promptly and without protest.
- Please respect my boundaries if I politely decline to answer questions about how the space works, who runs it, who else uses it, if anyone lives there, etc.
- Please only enter areas that are clearly blocked off with curtains or doors if you are invited to do so.
Contact me via e-mail at delphine_x@protonmail.com or fill out my booking form to inquire about an incall session.
