All About Dominant GFE (Kink) Sessions With Delphine

Feeling a little…spicy??

On my rates page, you may have noticed two different options. One is for GFE, and the other is for Dominant GFE. What does that mean?

Dominant GFE is the delectable combination of BDSM domination + GFE…with me as the domme of course. I actually have a whole other website devoted to this idea, but in recent months I’ve decided to put more of the info here to present a holistic vision of all my offerings. I hesitated to do so in past years because I didn’t want it to be confusing or off-putting to those who didn’t want kink sessions. So, I hope this article will give more of an explanation about who I am, how I like to play, and assure my vanilla sweethearts that I also adore my non-kink encounters.

What Kinks Can We Do Together?

I specialize in sensual torments. While I’m a warm domme, I can be very cruel. I love to tell you the most fucked up things about yourself and do the most terrible things to you in a caring manner with a sweet smile on my face.

My favorite kinks include the following. If you don’t see your idea listed here, please ask. It’s impossible to come up with a complete list of every kink I might possibly be interested in doing.

What Kinks Can’t We Do?

I do not do any kind of raceplay. I do not do ABDL roleplay. I am not interested in play involving blood or vomit.

What Does the GFE Part of Dominant GFE Mean?

Some dommes who are only pro dommes do not offer the same services as escorts. I offer all the services of an escort plus domination. You’ll have to read between the lines on that one. 😜

How to Address Me in Kink Play

I don’t love the term mistress or ma’am. I prefer the term Goddess if you want to use an honorific for me, though it is not required. Each kink situation is different. Someone who is new or just dabbling may not feel comfortable using such terms, whereas someone who is a deep player may only feel comfortable when using those terms. I don’t really care about capitalization in writing as part of my kink desires, but if that is part of your fantasy feel free to use that when writing to me.

Where Can We Do a Kink Session?

I have access to a few East Bay Dungeon spaces that are great for both shorter and longer incall kink sessions. I am also happy to visit you at your hotel or home to do an outcall kink session. Some kinks may be easier to do at my dungeon space, but not impossible to do at a home or hotel room (I have my ways!)

Building a Container for Kink and Dominant GFE

One of the most important aspects of kink play for me is the creation of a strong container for play. It is important to me that my kink clients understand this container. The container is that of fantasy. Within the container, all sorts of things can be true. Maybe you’re my bitch, a pathetic loser, or a loyal servant. Within and outside of the container, you always have the option to pause, check in, safe word, and ask for what you need. Outside of the container you are always you, and always have the empowerment in your life to care for yourself in the ways that you need.

I prefer for my clients to know and see the differences between fantasy and reality. This helps us to go deeper within the play arena because I can trust you more deeply. When I know you understand that our play or ongoing dynamic is a very meaningful fantasy and not a twisted reality I can trust your consent and desire, and take you further down the rabbit hole.

Just because it is fantasy does not make it shallow or fake. Through these powerful fantasies we can transform shame, embarrassment, and other difficult feelings into empowerment and pride. We can explore societal concepts and flip paradigms on their heads. And we can create a deep and ongoing dynamic that is meaningful to both of us.

“Which Do You Like Better, GFE or Dominant GFE?”

I get asked this question pretty frequently. The truth is, I wouldn’t offer any service that I don’t enjoy or don’t want to offer. Both modalities energize me in different ways. I love spending time with people with or without kink. What I love is each connection and seeing how it unfolds naturally. Maybe that sounds like a fence-sitting or people-pleasing answer, but it’s the absolute truth!

I really don’t want my vanilla sweethearts to feel like they are not kinky enough for me or that they have to try something kinky to interest me. I genuinely love both…and luckily I can have my cake and eat it too!