The Difference Between Vanilla GFE and Dominant GFE (Kink) Sessions With Delphine

You may have noticed two different options on my rates page for GFE and Dominant GFE. What is the difference between these two types of sessions?

What Does a GFE Session Entail?

GFE, or “girlfriend experience” sessions are a delightful way to connect. In a GFE session we can spend private time together for an hour or two. If you’d like to spend a bit longer, perhaps four or six hours together, we can go out for a meal or to an event. Or, maybe you’d like to spend the night together and have a morning snuggle and pillow talk before going on with your day.

To me GFE means connecting the way you might on any kind of date. GFE means the services of an escort, plus the sweetness and ease of a date, without the strings or attachment of a personal date or girlfriend. That doesn’t mean that there isn’t attachment or real intimacy within a session. It just means that those feelings are held within the boundaries of the session.

To be frank, back in the day, GFE also referred to a specific set of services, especially on the west coast. While many escorts do not follow that line of thinking anymore, I do offer what one might think of as this “traditional GFE” in addition to sweet girlfriend-like ease in our time together.

What Does a Dominant GFE Session Entail?

For me, dominant GFE, or dominant girlfriend experience, sessions are just like GFE sessions except they include more kink and/or more of a power dynamic. It can range from trying out something new and kinky during our private time to developing an ongoing power dynamic. It’s a potent combination.

I’m a sweet and sensual domme. It’s like your sweet girlfriend who does the most twisted and kinky things behind closed doors. We can spend a few hours in my play space, or we can go out to a nice dinner and seem totally normal while no one knows the terrible/wonderful things we’ll get up to after dinner. We can also have a bit of our dynamic out in the world. Perhaps playing footsie under the dinner table to get you all revved up for an evening of frustrating teasing sounds fun? Or making you pick out some lingerie at a sex shop knowing you’ll be the one wearing it and not me sounds like a delectable treat?

Each kink relationship is different. For some, our kink play is a simple exploration of an idea. Maybe you’ve always wanted to try getting pegged or tied up. Maybe you’re a fetishist, but not a submissive, and desire only play as part of our kink dynamic.

Other people crave total submission, and desire for our dynamic to continue in the world outside and in between sessions.

I’m open to either of these arrangements and quite a range in between, as long as you have a clear understanding that this is all a fantasy that is happening in a container of kink that has boundaries and safe words.

Which One is Right For You?

I’ve heard some people mention they have felt pressure to try kinks because they knew it was something that interested me. I always appreciate people trying to broaden their horizons, but I want you to know, I thoroughly enjoy both vanilla and kink sessions. I want you to feel comfortable in our time together. So, if you are genuinely interested in exploring a kink, book a dominant GFE session. If you’re not, then regular GFE will be perfect. I’ll genuinely enjoy either one because what I enjoy most is connecting with people authentically.