“How Do I Know You Are Real?” - Curvy, Hairy, SF Bay Area Muse

Lately I’ve been getting inquiries from all kinds of people who say things like:

“Sorry, I can’t screen, there are scammers out there.”

“How do I know you are really the girl in the photos?”

“I’ve been scammed before. How do I know you are real?”

“Are you sure you’re not a cop/LE?”

It’s true; there are all sorts of scammers in every industry, including within the world of companionship. I often direct people to this Reddit post that details how to find a safe provider.

How can you tell that I’m a real-life escort who wants to share a bit of sweet time together and not someone who will abscond with your screening info and destroy my entire business by sharing it? How can you tell I am not law enforcement? How can you tell I am not a wolf-in-sheeps-clothing or an alien from outer space? How can you tell I am who I say I am and offering what I say I am offering?

*Sure my tits are one reason you contacted me, but maybe they’re not the only one!*

Reflect on why you contacted me. Sure, my photos highlight my best assets—32G tits and a 40-inch ass—as well as my charming wit. And I’m sure a promise of a “good time” drew you in. But, part of my appeal is my reputation.

SMDH: Shaking My Damn Head

It honestly pains me that I have put so much time and thousands upon thousands of dollars into marketing myself over the last 7.5 years only for people to question my authenticity. I have put so many resources into this website, photo shoots, ads, etc. I’ve also put pieces of my real self, my creativity, my 3 am sparks of inspiration, my ethics, my empathy, my emotions, my politics, and my passions into my online presence and in-person sessions. It’s really me!

Even so, I am constantly asked to prove myself. Here are some factors that I hope will help you come to the conclusion that it’s me, Delphine! For real!

I Have Reviews

I have more than 75 5-star reviews on Private Delights and a few on TER (even though I’m not a huge fan of that site). I think I even have a couple on TNA Board, though I don’t use that site very often. I have also given 18 Okays on P411.

A review for delphine that reads:

"Inoubliable"

Every review, including this one, is a true understatement for who she is and what your encounter may be. She was incredibly easy to get a hold of and talk to. She is the person that captures your eye on the street, because her soul exudes "joie", and you are just naturally drawn to her, truly "Le coup de foudre". She is the rare combination of being just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside, and she will leave you dreaming of your time together. I could not be more excited to see her again, planning my next business trip as I type this... Thank you Delphine, "jusqu'à ce que nous nous revoyions"

delphine - April 18, 2024
Oh my goodness. Thank you for this sweet review. I can't wait until the next time ^_^ truly a pleasure...

A review for Delphine that reads:

An Amazing provider!!!

I had a fantastic experience with Delphine! She was incredibly thorough, attentive, and had a super chill demeanor that put me at ease. I truly felt special during our time together. She is earthly, super sexy and a great conversationalist. I personally love that combo! You really only need two words to describe Delphine. The Best! She is someone I definitely will see again, hopefully soon. Highly recommended!

delphine - October 2, 2023
Awww thanks for the sweet review :) Hope to see you again soon!

A review for Delphine that reads: Simply Incredible

I recently had the pleasure of spending some time with Delphine and I can see why she styles herself as a muse! I could not stop blissfully thinking about our time together the whole way home and the rest of the night afterwards.

Her location is quite spacious with great mood lighting and a generally sensual ambiance.
As for our time together, I was pretty nervous and excited when I walked in, and she remained warm, patient, and led the way to help me ease my nerves.

Her skills are wide ranging and all fricken fantastic, and it was deeply pleasurable for ALL of my senses. Her banter only served to set and accentuate the mood, and again, helped me come out of my own shell to fully appreciate the experience. Finally, I really appreciated her clear communication as it not only helped ME have a better time but also helped me better understand how I could help to make this as positive of an experience as possible for US.

What a wonderful time and I hope to see her again!

A few screenshots of some very sweet reviews from recent years.

We can debate on whether or not reviews/okays are helpful or good or whatever in this industry. However, they do prove that I’m real, that I’ve seen clients, and that they’ve been happy with their experiences.

They also show that I’ve been around a long time. Private Delights started in 2018. My first reviews on that site are from June 2018. I used to have others from earlier but those users have since deleted their accounts. I had a few reviews from 2017 on NightShift (RIP), the precursor to PD but those were lost to the side effects of FOSTA/SESTA.

I Have An Impeccable Reputation (And She’s Humble Too! ;p)

Look, you don’t get to keep working as an escort for 7.5 years by stealing deposits, collaborating with cops, or blackmailing clients with their screening info. You also don’t get to do so by not providing service, not looking like your photos, or being otherwise extremely difficult to see or work with.

I would like to think I have a positive reputation in our world, with the aforementioned 5-star reviews and satisfied sweethearts. Clients often compliment me on being kind, authentic, and easy-going in sessions (and for having great curves and…other skills lol).

I Have Social Media With Personal Thoughts and Anecdotes

I started my Twitter (now X) account in December of 2017, about 6 months after I started as Delphine. While I have deleted the majority of my tweets from that platform, my account clearly shows that I joined in December of 2017, showing that I’ve been around for a while. I have nearly 30,000 followers who didn’t just show up overnight! I also have a BlueSky account that I started in July 2023, but didn’t start using regularly until this year.

I post unique photos, including professional photos and selfies. I post my personal thoughts, anecdotes from my life, and lightly unhinged (or lightly hinged??) takes on the world. Doesn’t get more real than that.

A post from Delphine's Bluesky (otherwise known as a Skeet) that says "Do you ever just look at your cat and be like "wow! you're a cat!" #cats

A post from Delphine's Bluesky (otherwise known as a Skeet) that says: "I had a dream Ben Stiller was booking my friend who is not on social media, and I for a duo and we were picking out restaurants and they all had weird ass names like Wachoo lol"

A post from Delphine's Bluesky (otherwise known as a Skeet) that says: OK hear me out. I got pumpkin hummus at grocery outlet and… It's kind of very good????????? Am I losing my mind?????

Are these the random musings of the girl who is trying to abscond with your $50 deposit? Or the random musings of the girl who is in fact a real escort but can’t keep her midnight thoughts to herself?

On social media, scammers tend to post only photos with links. Sometimes they repost other providers in the hopes of getting their own posts reposted. They don’t post things that show personality or random musing about cats.

I Have Been on Podcasts!

Would an AI bot go on podcasts and talk about their personal experiences? I was on Mouthful With Shanti, a podcast by comedian Shanti Charan, where she interviews different people with different types of life experiences. In my episode I spoke about domination and ball busting!

More recently, I was on When We’re Not Hustling, with Jessie Sage. This podcast is about what sex workers do when they are off the clock. I talked about my experiences with non-monogamy as an escort in the episode I recorded with Jessie.

I Have This Website and Blog with My Personal Thoughts (It’s Not Even Written By AI!)

Delphene dressed as the character Caprica six from Battlestar Galactica. She is wearing a blond wig. Her arm is Delphene dressed as the character Caprica six from Battlestar Galactica. She is wearing a blond wig. Her arm is raised so you can see her armpit hair. She is wearing a red dress with cut outs on the sides so you can see her armpit hair. She is wearing a red dress with cut outs on the sides. — *Who wore it better? Me or Tricia Helfer??*

Sure, scammers can whip up some kinda basic website with someone’s stolen photos, but they will not put the effort into making a website with personality. People trying to do some kind of scam want to appeal to the widest audience possible. I don’t know if Caprica Six cosplay or dressing up like a Gold Statue will help them reach that goal.

Plus, I have this blog, which contains my original thoughts and ideas. People who are trying to get one over on you are not putting this kind of effort into things.

I Have New Creative and Artistic Photos Several Times a Year Showing Different Looks

One of the questions I mentioned earlier is, “How do I know you are the girl in the photos?” You can tell from years of photo work that I’ve done that sure, some things change like my hair length or the style of the photo, but mostly, I have been the same.

When you use some common sense and pair that with multiple social media accounts, more than seven years of reviews on verified accounts, and this blog, you will hopefully conclude that…it’s me! I don’t know what else to tell you. Would a scammer tell you to buy her Tajin for the holidays?? I think not.

Delphene is dressed like a robot, wearing elbow length, silver gloves, silver pasties over her large boobs and a short silver skirt as well as knee-high silver boots. She has a $100 bill in her mouth. She has her arms posed as if they are a robot or a doll. She is sitting next to a manikin, and there is silver foil in the background. There are tons of hundred dollar bills on the floor. — *WAIT AM I ACTUALLY A BOT?? OH, GOD.* *SOMEONE TURING TEST ME QUICK.*

Scammers and LE don’t do stuff like this. They take some random generic “hot girl” photos to lure people into a generic website, usually with content and writing stolen from some other escort. My photos and content, like weird cosplay or armpit hair pics, are honestly not what gets mass appeal, though they work for me to attract the type of people I enjoy interacting with. Scammers and LE want to cast a much wider net than what dressing like a hot robot or Dana Scully will do.

I Am Verified on Several Sites

Did you know you have to show your ID and go through some kind of intense steps to prove your identity on almost every ad site out there? It’s kind of like the ad site does some of the screening for you!

Some of them do manual ID confirmation, while others use AI facial recognition technology to make sure your face matches your ID and your ad photos. Other sites require you to send them unblurred versions of your ad photos if you do not show your face. On PD, Tryst, and anywhere else I advertise, I have verified my real-life identity outside of Delphine to prove that I am of age and a real person.

A Screenshot from Delphines PD account showing that she is a verified provider. — ✅ *It’s me!*

On PD you can tell because under my name on my profile there is a green checkmark that says “Verified Provider.” Everyone on Tryst has submitted their ID to get their profile approved. All new photos on Tryst go through a verification process that takes a few days to make sure they are the same person in the ad.

On every other ad site I’ve used over the years, Eros, Slixa, P411, etc etc etc, I’ve had to prove who I am. Yes, these sites still have scammers on them and you still have to be careful, but I think a verified presence, plus all the other factors I’ve mentioned show that I am for real.

If I’ve Directed You To This Post…

Hopefully, now you feel a tiny bit silly for wondering if I am going to blackmail you or steal a deposit that is a fraction of what I could make by actually having a session with you. ;p