• Blog Posts,  Date Ideas

    6 SF Eateries I’d Like to Try

    Delphine, a brunette white woman, is wearing a red dress. She is on a dinner date. She is holding a glass of white wine and smiling at you over the dinner table. She is an escort in the SF Bay Area

    When considering a dinner date, there are a few factors: dietary restrictions, availability of reservations, and any cravings. For me, it’s easy to fall into habits, returning to the same restaurants over and over. Why mess with a good thing, right? However, there are some SF restaurants I have yet to try that sound so good. Maybe we should explore…

  • Blog Posts,  Photographers,  Photography BHS

    Photographers I Adore: Wondra

    The first time I saw Wondra’s work on social media I knew I wanted to shoot with them. Their work has a certain hazy, dreamy, and sensual quality that I adore. The way Wondra works highlights the subject’s natural beauty in a thoughtful way. I wasn’t surprised to learn that they started their photography work with self-portraits, because that was…

  • Blog Posts,  Sex Work in the Media

    My Favorite Portrayals of Sex Work in Media

    Emma stone as Bella Baxter in Poor Things. She is in a long yellow cape in a snowy scene. Behind her is Mark Ruffallo as her jilted lover. He is sitting on a park bench.

    I don’t watch many movies or TV shows that have portrayals of sex work. Most characterizations of this profession in the media contain stereotypes ranging from offensive at worst to fetishizing or sensationalizing at best. The most common portrayals include a hooker or stripper dying, typically in some brutal and disturbing way. Or, the sex worker is portrayed as a…

  • Blog Posts,  Booking

    Couples Bookings: Why A Threesome With an Escort is a Great Idea

    Delphine in a red lacy top and moody lighting. She is staring seductively at the camera. Her blue eyes are glittering in a ray of sunlight.

    Multiple real-life surveys and years of pop culture anecdotes show that the idea of a threesome is one of the top fantasies for people of any gender. However, swiping and using Tinder or the like to find a third can be a tricky endeavor. Things can get messy. There can be all sorts of jealousy, insecurity, and more demands for…

  • Blog Posts,  Booking,  Duo Partners,  Duos

    Triple the Fun: Booking Duos With an Escort

    Organizing a threesome in your personal life can be complicated and a bit messy, especially if you’re already part of an established couple. That’s not to say it can’t ever work. But, it has a lot more potential for drama. Booking escorts is a great way to have a threesome where you know the boundaries of the scenario. We are…

  • Blog Posts,  Date Ideas

    Bay Area Holiday Season Date Ideas

    I’m perhaps not the most festive holiday person. As a Jew, the holidays can be an exhausting time of fielding questions like: “What are you doing for Christmas?” “Wait, you really don’t celebrate? Not even for fun?” “Oh, you don’t even have a Christmas tree? Wow! But they’re so pretty!” “Oh, well, it’s just a secular holiday.” “Well actually, it…

  • Blog Posts,  Gifts

    Slightly More Serious Hooker Holiday Gift Guide 2024

    Perhaps you’ve seen my Extremely Low Brow Hooker Holiday Gift Guide? In it, I mention that I might make a nicer/more serious gift guide. Again, a gift guide is different than a wishlist. I don’t necessarily want all these things, though I certainly wouldn’t mind them. This guide contains products I use, products I enjoy, and generally, things I think…

  • Blog Posts,  Gifts

    Extremely Low Brow Hooker Holiday Gift Guide

    This is a gift guide. It may not be the one you want, but it is the one you will get. It is called a hooker gift guide not because you are shopping for a hooker, but because, it was written by one. It is “low brow” because these gifts are silly, or an everyday item you might not think…