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Making My Dreams Come True: Gina Barbara
The first time I saw Gina Barbara’s work on Twitter back in the day, I knew I wanted to shoot with her! Her polished pin-up looks are absolutely unmistakable. She always infuses her own photographic style while still showing the subject’s essence and what they actually look like. She also doesn’t shy away from creative or complicated ideas. Working with…
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What Is GFE Anyways?
GFE – The Girlfriend Experience. It’s the subject of much debate and a bit of mystery, even with the industry. Yet, is also quite well-known. Even people who don’t participate in sex work as a provider or a client may have heard the term. It is often used in the media – there was even a popular TV show about…
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It Doesn’t Have to Be Fancy: 5 Casual Oakland Spots for Great Dates
I already wrote about the intersection of hooking and luxury in a previous article about some fine-dining restaurants I’ve been wanting to try. Some people believe that escorts only want to be taken to luxuriously Michelin-starred fine dining experiences. And, it’s true. I do like that, a lot! But I also enjoy local favorites, dive bars, taco trucks, and other…
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To Raise Or Not Raise Rates (Or: A Glimpse Into How the Sausage is Made)
RATES. Let’s talk about them. I’ll be honest. As much as this blog is for the clients, sweethearts, and generous lovers of my world, there are some posts that I write with my fellow SWers in mind. And this is one of them. I’ve debated whether or not I should give this window into my inner thoughts of this particularly…
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All About Screening with Delphine
Each escort screens differently. Some have more strict methods, others are more lenient. I think I fall somewhere in the middle. I offer several different methods that let me know you are likely a safe person to see. I think the way I screen is very fair and simple! Why Do Escorts Screen? Some clients think screening is a tool…
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Nature Babe Photos: Corwin Prescott
You know, I really feel like the luckiest girl in the world sometimes. Because, as an escort, I have time, money, and reason to work with some of the photographers I’ve admired for years on the internet. Corwin Prescott is one of these. I kept seeing Corwin’s work online and I just fell in love with the beautiful natural landscapes…
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I Was On a Podcast! Talking About Non-Hierarchical & Solo Poly on “When We’re Not Hustling” With Jessie Sage
In June of last year, I saw a post on X/Twitter by sex columnist and sex worker Jessie Sage looking for people to interview about polyamory/non-monogamy and sex work for her podcast When We’re Not Hustling. I shot off a DM right away. I thought I might have a unique perspective to share. We recorded our episode in December of…
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LA Trip March 10-13 and Photoshoot Sponsorship Opportunity
I’m so excited! I’m traveling to LA for some photoshoots and will be available for a few sessions there from March 10-13. Get in touch to book an LA session with me! While I’m in LA, I’ll be working with several photographers I haven’t worked with before. First up is Taryn Carter. Her work is amazing. I love how she…
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“How Do I Know You Are Real?”
Lately I’ve been getting inquiries from all kinds of people who say things like: “Sorry, I can’t screen, there are scammers out there.” “How do I know you are really the girl in the photos?” “I’ve been scammed before. How do I know you are real?” “Are you sure you’re not a cop/LE?” It’s true; there are all sorts of…
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5 Bay Area Cocktail Bars We Can Play Footsie In
Want to cozy up over a cocktail and get to know each other before some private time? I’m not a big drinker but I love going out for a drink or two before getting cozy together. My favorite drinks include: Here are some cute cocktail bars where we can have a good time! 1. North Light North Light is an…
