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BDSM Talks: Why I Prefer To Be Called Goddess
Every dominant person has their preferences for how they would like to be addressed. Honorifics for dominants range from the common such as Mistress, Ma’am, Sir, Daddy, or Mommy, to more rare and custom options like Lady, Lord, Domina, etc. In my BDSM play, as a dominant, I distinctly prefer to be called Goddess. Why is that? There are several…
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My Thoughts on Reviews
Review culture for escorts is a controversial topic. I think reviews were more essential back in the day, before FOSTA-SESTA. Then, there were more sites in which clients controlled the narratives and reviews could make or break a person’s career. Luckily, I came on the scene just before the end of that era, and I have only experienced a small…
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Dreamy Realness in LA: Alex Kacha
Alex Kacha is a photographer based in LA who is known for their dreamy aesthetic and sensual vibes. I’ve worked with them two times. Once in 2018 and once in 2021. According to their site, their goal with their photography is to photograph someone’s true essence. In addition to their photo offerings, they also have a Patreon for aspiring photographers…
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Let’s Go to a Museum Together!
I love to visit museums. And, it’s much more fun to do so with someone sweet! Here are some exhibits happening in the Bay Area this year that I’d love to visit. If one of these also piques your interest, maybe we should make it a date! Art of Manga at the de Young – Sept 2025-Jan 2026 I’m not…
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BDSM Talks: My Kink Background, Dixon Mason, Bondage, This One’s Getting Real and It’s Going to Be Long
I’ve debated for a couple months if I should put this out there. This is not an impulsive choice. I first thought of it in late March or early April, but made myself delay for a while because it seemed a bit out of pocket for me. But as my desires persisted, it has seemed less and less out there.…
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On Duolingo and Why I Might Be a Linguaphile
Now that Twitter is less avian, there’s a new bird app in town! If you follow me on social media, you have probably seen me posting about my Duolingo streak. By the time this posts, I will have a streak of over 1,000 days on the “bird app.” My friends got me a Duolingo hat and t-shirt for my birthday…
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Witchy Photo Dreaminess: Amanda Valentine
I think I first saw Amanda Valentine’s work on Instagram (RIP my old IG accounts…but I just started using it again!) through either Gina Barbara or Lucky Drive Photos. Her work had that certain “je ne sais quoi ” that made me want—no, actually, NEED—to shoot with her. I immediately booked a shoot at her Phoenix studio back in 2018.…
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Face In or Face Out? That Is the Question
You’ve probably seen the terms “face-in” or “face-out” floating around the world of escorting. What does it mean, and what does it mean for clients and providers? Why do some people stay face in, or elect to go face in after being face out, and vice versa? I started face-in, because it seemed like the wisest choice. However, after a…
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BDSM Talks: Why I Say No to “Whatever You Want, Mistress”
In all realms of sexuality, compatibility is extremely important. However, in the kink realm, there are often extra layers of compatibility that can make things even more complicated. It’s very common for people who are new to kink, or just exploring, or who aren’t actually into it but think it’s kind of exciting, to come to a session and say…
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Hygiene: How to Prepare to See an Escort
I am happy to report that most of my sweethearts are very eager to please, especially when it comes to the realm of cleanliness. The majority of people hop in the shower when I suggest it, use the mouthwash provided, and in general, care about their hygiene when they know they’re about to get down and dirty. Most of these…
